I've Learned ... I've learned- that when we look at ourselves in life, and we feel great about it and pass the word around. Then suddenly, it feels as if we have sinned to have a good time and relax. So we do what we possibly can to convince ourselves to choose the old way in life. Again! Unless we choose NOT to! I've learned- that no experience can last for a life time, unless we call it forth to constantly repeat itself. I've learned- that it's a never ending process to become the person we really want to be. That is why we were born and are here now and will die. I've learned- that we should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time we see them. I've learned- that we can keep going long after we decided that we can't. I've learned- that human's Will Power is greater than the most powerful creation we can ever imagine. I've learned- that we are responsible for what we do and how we feel in regards to it. I've learned- that either we control our attitude or it controls us. I've learned- that there are Five attitudes that brings the highest version of us to life. Those are: being Grateful, Blessing, Accepting, Loving and Joyful. I've learned- that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion could fade if we expect that it will! I've learned- that our best friends and us can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I've learned- that sometimes the people we expect to kick us when we are down, will be the ones to help us get back up. I've learned- that having expectations causes fear and fear is the number one enemy of human being. I've learned- that expectation is the cause of unhealthy and/or ruined relationships. I've learned- that heroes are the people who remain being heroes as their action that defines them as heroes, is done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've learned- that money is always there, regardless of the circumstance and consequences. No one has ever gone poor, unless there has been a thought about it first. I've learned- that the more we want to be rich, the more we stay in the state of 'wanting to be rich', unless we change it to knowing that money is always there and more is always on it's way, without considering the results and having preferences. I've learned- that anger is coming from our deepest fears. When we acknowledge that fear and re-think it, we won't find any reason for anger, worries, hate or stress and anxiety. I've learned- that the power of our thoughts bends any distance. I've learned- that love wants what we want for us, not what we expect that love might bring us. I've learned- that every moment in time is like a birthday for us to celebrate and recreate ourselves anew. deciding who we are and who we now choose to become! I've learned- that the opportunity to become the next highest version of ourselves is given to us at every moment and it is never too late! I've learned- that our family won't always be there for us. People we aren't related to can take care of us and love us and teach us to trust people again. Families aren't biological. I've learned- If we think that our best friend or a good friend is going to hurt us every once in a while, they will, and we must forgive them and ourselves for that, because it is our own co-creation. I've learned- that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Forgiving ourselves at all time will enable us to forgive others much easier! I've learned- that nothing happens unless it has been a thought first. A broken heart is only a creation of our thought, becoming our own reality. Yes! A broken heart could be mended! I've learned- that I don't need to be punished for any reason by others and most importantly, by myself! It wasn't and isn't our fault or any body's fault, nor will it be our's or anyone's fault either when an event takes place. How we react to these events is the question. I've learned- that who we are becoming is who we were before influenced by our background and circumstances, only this time, we are aware and consciously choosing what we are becoming. I've learned- that acceptance of differences instead of resisting it, is the most peaceful and loving approach to any event and the key to any happy relationship. We don't have to agree with the event, but we don't have to push it away either. I've learned- that what we resist, it persists! I've learned- that all of us and everything around us is constantly changing. The change is always there, who I am choosing to be in relation to these changes is what matters. I've learned- that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I've learned- that there are as many paths as there are faces and life forms in the Universe. A different path or approach to anything does not mean that it is to be judged or classified as wrong or Right! It merely is another path that serves those who chose it. I've learned- that our lives can be changed in a matter of moments by people who don't even know us. I've learned- that everyone who comes in touch with us is there to give and receive a gift. We don't have to know them and they don't have to know us to exchange gifts. I've learned- that we can still bless people, even when they don't sneeze. I've learned- that when we think we have no more to give, when we hear a cry, we'll find the strength to help. Even the cry from inside ourselves! I've learned- that credentials on the wall do not make us a decent human being. I've learned- that life is eternal, we are all one and we are here to re-member who we really are. There are many life times for that and the good news is that in the Universe, failure as we know it, does not exist. I've learned- that what we see is part of life we choose to live! We are experiencing all the experiences. It is completely our choice to be what we choose to be, in regards to every event and every circumstance at every moment! I've learned- that heaven is nowhere and after we die that's where we are going to be. I've learned- that adding a dash in nowhere will change the whole meaning of it, take a look: Now - Here! That is where we were, are and will be. I've learned- that there are 2 questions to ask when an event takes place. We must be sure that we are 100% honest with self: -- Who am I in regards to this event or circumstance? -- Who do I NOW choose to be? I've learned- that: "To be or Not to be?" is the question and "To Be!" is the answer. I've learned- that all beings - including ourselves - are blessed, holy, magnificent and as perfect as the Universe! 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